Standard Therapy
I am a clinical
psychologist and family therapist. I specialize in
adolescents, children and families. I have written and
taught in these areas. I have successfully worked with
couples in marital therapy as well as couple group
therapy. For years I have worked with individuals, in
both psychotherapy and life coaching.
I also consult
with schools and give workshop on many topics. I have
written 11 childrens books, which are available on
Amazon.com.
My modality is
psychodynamic and family systems. I work with all ethnic
groups, gender and religious orientations. I have
published, written, produced and taught throughout the
world
Be aware that
Couples/Marriage and Family Therapy is provided under my
MFT License, and as such is not covered by Medicare. I
have opted out of Medicare.
Mindful Marathon Therapy
With
Bill E. Forisha and Ann Forisha Thiel, et al.
MARATHON FAMILY THERAPY: Although most of my clients are
seen in the traditional 50-minute session in my Pacific
Palisades office, I often conduct therapy in the clients’
own home and/or in multiple sessions. In fact, I have
found that a very effective means of treatment is actually
to conduct family or couple therapy in marathon sessions.
This requires scheduling 10 to 18 hours of work over a two
or three day period. This method is particularly useful to
help families breakout of a stalemate or work through an
impasse in their relationship in order for members to move
forward in their lives—together or separately as the case
may be. Marathon sessions are often a very practical
alternative whenever family members live far apart and/or
live far from my office. In recent years, I have
co-conducted such marathons along with my colleague, Dr.
Bill Forisha, in San Francisco, California, Seattle,
Washington, Hamburg, Germany, and Budapest, Hungary.
(PLEASE NOTE—that we did not invent this method of doing
family therapy; in fact, there is evidence and precedent
to support as a treatment of choice. If you want to
examine the literature on this subject, please email Dr.
Bill Forisha at: bforisha@argosy.edu accordingly.) Dr.
Forisha is chairman of the Family Therapy Department at
Argosy University in Minneapolis, Minnesota.
Dr Forisha and I have also conducted workshops in Europe,
South America and India.
I also work with Dr. Steve Held and underachieving
Children using the "Master Student Guidelines."
About Mindful Marriage Marathons
There are three parts to an intimate
relationship—me, you, and us. Most marital problems
develop over time. Partners get so busy with their
individual lives and/or their parental responsibilities
that they neglect the “us” until the consequences of
neglect create pain for the “me” and/or the “you”. Then
one or both partners rings the alarm bell and decides to
either abandon ship or call damage control. Those that
simply abandon ship usually find themselves in deep water
and encircled by legal sharks. Those that seek marital
therapy begin a long, slow, painful, and unpredictable
process of finally becoming mindful of that which they
have been neglecting. Mindful Marriage Marathons are
conducted by a co-therapy team in two or three consecutive
days in sessions lasting 5 to 7 hours in length each day.
Marathon therapy selectively draws from a wide range of
established methods; in fact, co-therapists utilize many
of the same methods that have been proven by researchers
to be relatively successful in on-going traditional
50-minute sessions (usually held weekly for several months
to a year or even more). Mindful Marriage Marathons
provide an alternative—one that invites a couple to focus
exclusively and intensely on their marital relationship
for a specified amount of concentrated time. In doing so,
each marathon session essentially addresses all three of
the scenarios described above by:
Empowering partners to repair minor damages and to
restore and maintain a balanced, mindful, and sustainable
approach to the care of self, other, and their
relationship.
Interrupting the cycle of mistrust, anger, and hurt—even
as the cycle has begun to pick up speed and spin out of
control—by applying an intense therapeutic “braking”
experience, one that aims to restore mutual respect of
self and other, even as the relationship itself may begin
to undergo careful or mindful restructuring
Providing a quick start to what might become a longer
therapeutic process—in order to provide immediate
emotional safety for each partner, non-medicated
(emotional) pain management, problem identification, and
initial, if not yet full, problem resolution.
My Office
My office has relocated to the South Carthay area of Mid
Wilshire Los Angeles. Currently, my "office" will be
virtual via Zoom. Fully vaccinated, boosted and masked
clients may come to my South Carthay home office when
there is no Covid surge.
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